A woman shared her unsettling first-date experience on Reddit, seeking validation for blocking a man who took her to an expensive restaurant against her suggestion. She initially named her favorite restaurant, warning of its high prices, and even proposed a more affordable alternative. Despite her efforts, the man insisted on her choice.

As they enjoyed a lavish dinner, she was uncomfortable when the man grabbed her card, making a comment that irked her. She suspected mind games and felt violated as he seemed to test her reaction to covering the $250 bill. Annoyed, she blocked him after thanking him for the evening.

Seeking affirmation on Reddit, opinions were divided. Some supported her decision, empathizing with her discomfort, while others felt she overanalyzed the situation and should have paid half the bill before blocking him. Despite mixed responses, the woman acknowledged the lesson learned, sent him money for her share, and emphasized that she never intended to use him for a free dinner.